The very first step in accessing your HigherSELF Heart strength [your connection to THE UNIVERSE] is to surrender to your indwelling Soul.
LOVE will not only draw and keep things together but it will dissolve that which does not adhere to its own Principle. The following is a quotation regarding The Universal Principle of LOVE that applies to all of Life and Living and enables the manifestation of physical reality in the process of affinity, adhesion, coagulation, and repulsion of atomic particles. All of are composed by the cohesion of unconditional Universal LOVE of SPIRIT that holds The UNIVERSE together. A very powerful Spiritual discourse from the Masters of the Himalayas:
"Love is, as it might be said, cohesion, or a binding force that keeps all things in relationship to their source."
"But Love will dissolve that which is not in harmony with the Universal order for it demands of everything its complete adherence to the principle of its own nature which is SPIRIT."
Life and Teaching of the Masters of the Far East