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UCPOL Resources and Information: Negative Ego Behaviors |
The purpose of this information provided by THE UNIVERSE Center of All Life is to learn how to identify negative ego behaviors, and to stop these negative emotions and thought-forms, as they feed the shadow and negative form. By learning how to identify negative ego behaviors you will discern how they impact others. There are three main stages of promoting, distributing and reinforcing the stages of negative ego behaviors.
The First StageS of negative ego
- The negative ego is the drive to maintain and enhance favorable views of oneself and generally features an inflated opinion of his or her own personal features and importance at many levels; intellectual, physical, social and other.
- The conceit of a negative ego acts to gain values in an amount excessively greater than that which he or she gives to others. This profile is the Service to Self identity.
- A negative ego may be fulfilled by exploiting the sympathy, irrationality or ignorance of others, as well as utilizing coercive force and fraud.
- The egotist has an overwhelming sense of the importance and centrality of the me and of his or her personal qualities and desires.
- Egotism means placing oneself at the core his or her world with no real concern for others, including those considered as close, in any other terms except those that are set by the egotist.
The Second StageS: Narcissism
Narcissism is used to describe the pursuit of gratification from vanity, or egotistic admiration of his/her own physical or mental attributes, that derive from arrogant pride.
The Seven Negative Though-forms of Narcissism:
The Seven Negative Though-forms of Narcissism:
- Shamelessness: Shame is the feeling that lurks beneath all unhealthy narcissism and the inability to process shame in healthy ways.
- Magical thinking: Narcissists see themselves as self-justified or perfect, using distortion and illusion known as magical thinking. They also use projection to dump his or her unwanted negative emotions, such as shame onto others.
- Arrogance: A narcissist who is feeling deflated may re-inflate by diminishing, debasing, or degrading somebody else.
- Envy: A narcissist may secure a sense of superiority in the face of another's ability by using contempt to minimize the other person.
- Entitlement: Narcissists hold unreasonable expectations of particularly favorable treatment and automatic compliance because they consider themselves special or more important. Failure to comply is considered an attack on his/her superiority, and the perpetrator is considered awkward or difficult. Defiance of his/her will is a narcissistic injury that could trigger narcissistic rage.
- Exploitation: Takes many forms but always involves the exploitation of others without regard the others feelings or interests. Often the other is in a subservient position where resistance would be difficult or even impossible. Sometimes this may not be real as assumed.
- Bad boundary: Narcissists do not recognize that they have boundaries and that others are separate individuals and are not extensions of themselves. Others either exist to meet the narcissist needs or may as well not exist at all. Those who provide narcissistic supply to the narcissist are treated as if they are part of the narcissist and are expected to live up to those same expectations. In the mind of a narcissist, there is no boundary between self and other.
The Third and final Stages: Dark/Black Heart
Masters at influence, emotional manipulation and deception. Very little of what they say actually checks out in terms of facts or reality, but they are extremely skillful at making the things they say sound believable, even if they are making them up out of thin air.
- Diminished empathy and remorse, and disinhibited or bold behavior.
- Boldness. low fear including stress-tolerance, toleration of unfamiliarity and danger, and high self-confidence and social (alpha) assertiveness. Fearless dominance.
- Poor impulse control including problems with planning and foresight, lacking affect and urge control, demand for immediate gratification, and poor behavioral restraints.
- Higher level are highly organized and have been trained to project a socially acceptable personality out to the public, while redirecting addictive or deviant impulses to be dealt with and released in privacy.
- Meanness: Lacking empathy and close attachments with others, disdain of close attachments, use of cruelty to gain empowerment, exploitative tendencies, defiance of authority, and destructive excitement seeking.
All negative ego behaviors separate/disconnect a human being from his or her HigherSELF Heart. What on the above list may be triggering your negative ego?
Others in your life may exhibit some range of these negative ego behaviors or many of these negative ego behaviors. The more dysfunctional behaviors equate to the severity level of allowed control of the negative ego/shadow form. Sometimes a reasonably coherent and balanced individual may succumb to strange behaviors or ego outbursts related to uncleared subconscious layers feeding the individual shadow form. In these current times, this is happening much more often with undisciplined negative ego behaviors as more are impacted by the shadow form and lower dark forces rising onto the surface in order to be recognized and transmuted [cleared]. Seeking the path of the HigherSELF Heart and UNIVERSAL TRUTH as an IndividualSELF value system is the most effective path and way to clear the shadow forms that are created by the negative ego behaviors.
Others in your life may exhibit some range of these negative ego behaviors or many of these negative ego behaviors. The more dysfunctional behaviors equate to the severity level of allowed control of the negative ego/shadow form. Sometimes a reasonably coherent and balanced individual may succumb to strange behaviors or ego outbursts related to uncleared subconscious layers feeding the individual shadow form. In these current times, this is happening much more often with undisciplined negative ego behaviors as more are impacted by the shadow form and lower dark forces rising onto the surface in order to be recognized and transmuted [cleared]. Seeking the path of the HigherSELF Heart and UNIVERSAL TRUTH as an IndividualSELF value system is the most effective path and way to clear the shadow forms that are created by the negative ego behaviors.
